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This article describes 3 reasons why people should hate the evil Facebook, that hasn’t taken long to ruin some people’s lives, and may one day ruin yours.
Please keep in mind that these reasons are in no particular order. One day I was sitting down and thought it would be a good idea for me to write down my philosophy about why I hate Facebook. I felt it necessary because every time someone asked me do I have a Facebook and I replied no they looked me as if I was in the dark ages, you waste people. Let me get something straight I had a Facebook a long time ago, I just quickly realised that documenting my life in black and white was just not necessary.
Each of my 3 reasons will have a title and a short explanation of exactly what I mean; the explanations will be from a guy point of view. I can’t be bothered to do it from a female point of view because no one can do that, not even a female.
If you’re a Facebook addicted then try and read this with an open mind, this article won’t change the world but my change your approach to situations and particular things. It’s just a bit of fun because I am bored.
1. Female: Don’t judge me! Male: Shout up you GRIM.
You could be walking down the road one day and bump into the girl or guy of your dreams. Not only exchanging numbers you probably will add each other on Facebook. Facebook unless you’re extremely smart at using the privacy tools (let’s face it, most people aren’t) is like a window into your life. The endless trail of photos and wall posts begs people to judge you, and keep returning to judge you again and again. In my example is the girl with the slutty pictures of her in her bra and panties on her bed, taking photos in front of the mirror of her bum in hot pants etc. I like to call these girls GRIMS. So when this GRIM met her dream guy on road he knew nothing about her. His approach is cautious and respectful, his thoughts of perhaps a future with this girl, maybe even making her his wifey. He then adds her online on Facebook and is presented with all of those slutty photos and even subjected to wall posts like “Radom guy 1: babes your looking sexy”, or “Radom guy 2: where was you last night babes was waiting for you”. The guy has now past judgement on this female she will forever be a GRIM and never a wifey, the thoughts of a future with this girl have now gone. The famous saying comes to mind “you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife”. This is the bit that confuses females, why is he still so nice to me, when he can’t see a future? Well that is because he hasn’t got any yet, derrrr! He will continue to treat you nice tell eventually he does get some, why? Because no guy wants to be with a GRIM, that’s WHY! GRIM are fun that’s it. This guy could have been the guy of your dreams; but his poor perception of you did not work for but against you.
If you’re a GRIM I feel sorry for you, but it’s never too late, and in the words of Michael Jackson, take of those slutty pictures and “make that change” – Michael Jackson, Man in the mirror
The clue here girls is that guys tell you this but some just don’t listen, here is my inspiration for my first point.
GRIM - By Wiley, JME & Ears
YouTube Video - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06RU52dwj_s
Solution: Don’t act like a GRIM keep these bedroom, and groupie pictures on your computer and not for the public. Present yourself to public as you would present yourself to your parents or Jesus.
2. Stalking me, stalking you!
The old school stalking game of hiding in the bushes is gone; meet the new age of cyber stalking. I believe that the new age of stalking is not just limited to strangers but also people that we know. There maybe someone in your life that is interested in you, having a nice glossy page full of pictures and comments from you would be the perfect place to get there fix. There is a lot of information that you can extract from your page so be weary and be careful. For example on your wall your friend says “so what we doing tonight we going up town to APT bar”, you then message back on their wall with “Yeah”. Your friend replies back with “cool see you there”. Now although the stalker can’t see the “Yeah” or reply to the original message it is clear from your friend’s reply what your answer was. You get to the club Mr Stalker is there watching trying to get that opportunity to come and have a chat, it’s sick.
Solution: Simple rule only add friends, if your adding people you just know, put them on a limited profile, and learn how to use your Privacy settings.
3. Facebook has killed the old school approach
Let me draw you to the attention of this word. Courtship is the traditional dating period before engagement and marriage. During a courtship, a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement. Usually courtship is a public affair, done in public and with family approval.
Our parents build relationships on the foundations of good conversation, trust, time and with family approval. Now these profile websites are like a smutty free for all. Single handily destroying the element of unknown between people and laying it bare on the table for all to see. I would hate to be in a position when some girl said, what’s your favourite colour? I say “blue”, and the girl is thinking that’s not what he said on his profile, he’s a liar! Now I know the example is a bit extreme and stupid, but I prefer the old school approach of knowing nothing. Relationships were stronger in the past that’s a fact, nativity may have made love stronger, but at present information is making love weaker.
Solution: I think if you want to look more appealing don’t have a Facebook. Here is a good saying “if the worlds spinning in circles you got to learn to move backwards”. – Styles P, I’m not you (Clipse Ft Styles P). All guys are looking for a good female but if you get classed as a GRIM that is what you’re going to attract.
Well those are my three reasons why I hate Facebook I have many more, don’t get me started about the crappy pointless applications, the stupid spam for raves you don’t want to go to, the fact they sell your personal information on to third party companies. The list is endless; I think I went off the point but who cares.
If you a GRIM then change, and if you still love Facebook you will change in time, trust me. This was just a bit of fun and Facebook is really not that serious but life is!
Here is also a selection of websites that may help sway your decision.
- Facebook ruin my Life
- Facebook is evil
- Is Facebook the Devil
- Discussion on Facebook
Bah
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